In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to get caught up in the binary thinking of "good" or "bad." However, cultivating empathy can be a game-changer. Empathy involves seeking to understand the perspectives of others, as well as having compassion for ourselves. By tapping into this power, we can navigate difficult situations with more grace and find common ground. When our first reaction is to argue or judge, stopping that reaction and refocusing our thoughts and emotions on connecting can result in wonderful conversations and new insights. Empathy doesn't mean giving in or always agreeing - it's about approaching challenges with a curious and understanding mindset. Whether it's dealing with a coworker, a family member, or a customer, empathy can help us build stronger connections and find more resourceful solutions. |
Mindshifting is recognizing and shifting from the mindsets that hold us back to the mindsets that push us forward. I write about mindsets, Mindshifting, learning, and education, with the hope that these posts give readers more power over their own lives and helps them give others, like their students, more power as well.
In her Rethink newsletter, Rachel Botsman wrote about What we can learn from being wrong. Botsman showed how Danny Kahneman, Vincent van Gogh, Kathryn Shulz, Thomas Gilovich, Carol Tavis, Elliot Aronson, Adam Grant, Alistair Campbell, and Ann Frieman all demonstrate that learning is a product of being wrong, and that not being willing to be wrong leads to stagnation and mediocrity. Sweet things are made of this, who am I to disagree? I’m me, and I always find a way to disagree. It's through...
The OODA Loop, developed by military strategist Colonel John Boyd, stands for Observe, Orient, Decide, and Act. Originally conceived as a tool for tactical military decision-making, the OODA Loop has since found applications in various fields, from business and healthcare to education. At its core, the OODA Loop is a framework for navigating dynamic, complex, and uncertain environments, making it particularly valuable for educators, who face constantly shifting landscapes in the classroom....
My friend Ana Amiguet challenged me to write about a time I had to stand up for someone This was over 50 years ago, but I remember it as if it was yesterday. I was in 9th grade, which was the last year of Junior High School. Martha was slightly developmentally disabled. She was in 7th grade, so this was her first year in Junior High. Martha was one of my sister Sue’s friends, a half year and a full grade older. Martha’s parents were very good friends with my parents. And her parents had...